My Husband calls me SLUT when I ask for INTIMACY
CONFESSOR: Hi…I am sharing my life story with you. I got married in 2017 and I loved my husband alot. But he never valued my love. After some time of marriage he started abusing me physically and mentally. Started talking shit about my family because these things can broke me. After hurting me to the core then he started behaving nice then again start hurting me and this cycle continues periodically. After years of marriage we were blessed with a baby boy and we were very happy and I thought ki now things will gonna be perfect. But after 4 months of my delivery he again changed. He started avoiding me. My baby is almost 4 years now and these years he didn’t even touch me once and this was eating me alive. Whenever I told him to get intimate he started comparing me with sl*uts. I was broked and alone because I can’t share this with anyone. But one day he crossed all his limits and that was the decided to move out from this marriage. I took my kid and moved out. Got a job and taking care of my kid and myself.I didn’t demand anything in those years. Even my basic day to day things were sent by my parents and I never complained about it because I just wanted peace. I just want to ask one question to people… Why husbands can’t love their wife? We do everything to make them happy but why don’t they see it. Why can’t they see our sacrifices? Why???
ADMIN : Are you divorced by law or just decided to move out
CONFESSOR: I had to because I was getting suicidal thoughts aur agar mujhe kuch ho gaya to mere bache ko kon sambhalta. I filed for divorce. Case chal raha hai abhi.
ADMIN: He has agreed for divorce ?
CONFESSOR: Yes
ADMIN: Is he asking for the custody of the kid ?
CONFESSOR: No
ADMIN: Court will ask him to give alimony
CONFESSOR: I am working so I don’t want anything but I want reasonable rights for my kid. I have to build everything from scratch like a home for my kid but I need little support.
ADMIN: Does he love the kid ?
CONFESSOR: Yes he does. He is a good father, but failed as a husband
ADMIN: Are you sure there isn’t another person in his life ?
CONFESSOR: Yes there is some one in his life and I did not know. He never allowed me to touch his phone.
ADMIN: Do you have sufficient proof
CONFESSOR: No I don’t have… I don’t have anything to prove this.
ADMIN: But are you going to tell this in the court
CONFESSOR: I was a housewife. I wasn’t allowed to move out from my home alone so I don’t know with whom he met and all. But lawyers know everything… He didn’t touch me from past 3.5yrs… it’s not possible for a 34 yr old man. So they are investigating.
ADMIN: So how long has it been in the court.
CONFESSOR: Just started
ADMIN: Are you staying with your parents now ?
CONFESSOR: Yes. My parents are my constant support. I can’t do anything without them.
ADMIN: Glad that you have really supportive parents CONFESSOR: Just wanted to share my story and tell people that… Some people thought that females took divorce for the alimony and all but no… We just wanted love, support and security but you failed as a husband. I was educated enough so I got a government job and became stable in my life. But there are a lot of ladies in the world who don’t have this support.