Instead of confession, i want to ask for an advice from your followers. I am 22 years old, and my boyfriend is 24. We are currently working in the same company in Mumbai. We started dating 2 months ago. He was very supportive and very caring. He always used to make me feel loved and was quite possessive about me. 2 days ago I resigned from my office, since I wanted to switch to a new job profile in a better company. My boyfriend was very sick from past 3-4 days and as soon as I left the office (the decision that he knew about) he all of a sudden started calling me and texting me more and was constantly saying sorry and crying a lot over call. Whenever I used to ask him what happened he said he missed his mom (His mother passed away 2 years ago). Until tomorrow when he came to meet me on the way near my house. He was forcing me to go to some nice lavish place to eat. I denied and took him to the mall’s food court because I knew there was something going on. We ordered food. He was constantly pushing me to buy few things from the mall which I politely denied.

We sat and had a normal conversation for few minutes. He then all of a sudden says “Baby I am sorry, I fucked up”. I went silent for a moment. I asked him “Did you resign from the job as well”.. he says “No”.. I asked him if there was something wrong in his family. He replied “No”. Then he all of a sudden started talking about the girl in the office who is a fresher and sits beside him. He said they used to talk normally, until 2 days before when I was absent in the office, in the evening, that girl started asking him about his girlfriend (she knew i was his girlfriend, but we wanted to keep it a lil private, hence we never discussed our relationship in office to maintain the professionalism). But she knew about me because he used ti sit beside her and discuss about me a lot. So she figured. She forced him to speak about me. He did. Then she started diverting the topic towards sexual stuff. Although she praised him everyday for his looks. That evening it was different. The praises were much more in a seducing way. My boyfriend said “thank you” and moved on with the conversation.

She started discussing about the sexual stuffs and sexual preferences. Like what did he like during s*x? What are his fantasies. The hurtful part is my boyfriend answered all her questions and even he started asking her same kinda questions. The conversation went a little too far. Although my boyfriend says that it was nothing serious. After the office my boyfriend jokingly asked her to wait downstairs. But he kept working in the office for the next 1 hour forgetting about her. Surprisingly she waited for him for an hour to come down stairs. As he came down, they both again had some conversation and my boyfriend started walking in the opposite direction as she used to catch auto from that place till her house. They again had some conversation where that girl told my boyfriend that she is already.

Dating someone who is very toxic and its a long distance relationship. My boyfriend sympathized and they again went to the same old conversation. When all of a sudden he realized what he was doing. He immediately asked her to stop and this is not right and we should not talk anymore. He called me in a hurry and started crying and saying sorry. I didn’t understand why he is crying. That’s when he came to meet me the next day. He said he didn’t want to lie to me and keep me in the dark. It is going to be my decision whether I accept him or not. Now it might be possible that this entire thing is not a big deal. But i am unable to trust him again. He is very sweet and genuine person. I love him a lot. But I don’t know what to do now Anyone reading this, please suggest me what should I do?