1st time I met her on her birthday and for 20 days we were talking only on phone. While in the phone conversation, she wanted to go to OYO, she insisted and I agreed to. But before going to OYO itself, I was clear that I don’t want to continue the relationship as I don’t relationship and this love is not my thing. I can see that I am changing and while in love, I was not me. I used to be happy before without any responsibilities and carefree type, so I wanted to end the relationship. But she never agreed; even before touching her, I wanted this relationship to end. But she begged for another chance, she fought very hard. I became light-hearted and gave her the chance which I should not have given! After that also, I said I am not interested, I want to end. And then we decided to go on a tour for 3 days. I went there to explain the stuff, why I don’t want this relationship but she kept on giving excuses and wanted this relationship so badly. And then we both got drunk and the physical relationship happened (even though I was not interested in sex, I said I am tired, leave me and she was like, ‘For sleeping only you came to tour? You are disappointing me, etc., so I did the sex. It’s not like I don’t want it. I controlled it so badly as I was not sure in the relationship, but after she asked me the questions and insisted, I did it (I was drunk)).

The sex happened mistakenly and I still wanted to end the relationship. But she said that since I took her virginity, I need to marry her. I kept defending her for like 1 month. And then she suddenly came up with this fake pregnancy. She kept me believing that she was pregnant for over 1 month, like she aborted using pills and consulted a doctor, etc. After I found out everything is a lie, she could not sustain the lie and she accepted everything is a lie. And again she is like, ‘I took virginity so I need to take the responsibility. I kept defending and she told her parents. Her mom called me and said she lied about pregnancy to just make me take responsibility, and she told that if I didn’t take responsibility her father will kill my whole family and put a fake case on me. So much threatening happened. After everything, I still said I don’t want the relationship and she started saying she will commit suicide. Now I decided to take the responsibility because I don’t have any other options left. Now I don’t know what I need to do. What is done is done. What can be done?

So people still judge me like I used her, playboy, etc. I will take the responsibility, but will taking responsibility alone make life easier? Will our life be any good if I was forced to marry the girl? I don’t blame her at all because all she did is love me so much. Without knowing the seriousness and others’ feelings, I went into it. Now I want to get out of it. What should I do? I can make the decisions and fight for it or shall I take the responsibility? Within 20 days, I also told her that I feel like giving false hopes and fake promises, I want to end this relationship, please leave me. I was very clear in the beginning, but I wasn’t stable in the decision.