I don’t understand from where I should start, but let me introduce you myself i am boy who loves his family and mother from his heart, it’s not needed to be said but since my childhood I have fulfilled all the responsibilities as a son and even I do all house chores well it was the time when I joined my college for my graduation and there I met a girl. And I fall for her and confessed her about my love for her, we decided to stay together and I introduced her to my family first as a friend because I was concerned about us, my family is an typical orthodox family, it was the time when my parents got to know that I love that girl and she is from different caste my parents totally goes against me. First they try to convince me to leave that girl and marry someone from there caste but to which I deny them they create pressure on me, and they kept on increasing the pressure by involving more and more relatives and family members, they even threatened me to k!ll me or said they will comm!t su!c!de, I got scared from there threat soo I told them that I am not anymore in contact with that the girl, now at this time I got graduated and got placed in company which cheated on every employee and expelled everyone within 2 months. I was at my home jobless, my sister spied on me and told my parents that I am still in relationship with the girl, then my parents get furious and started beating me, they pressurized me to the very extent possible, even my mother or everyone didn’t talked to me for 6 months all I was alone in a room but that girl she supported me in every possible way. Then there comes the horrific time of my life my parents find a girl from there caste with lots of dowry and forced me to marry her, they did this twice before. They put 2 options in front of me that either I marry that girl from their choice and be a son and took all responsibilities. Or I leave the house forever even they expelled me from their property to which I already told them that I don’t have any greed for their property

Sorry to mention, my parents discriminated that girl and her family in whole college and even said things like “inke yaha ka pani pene se acha nali ka pe lo” or “inke yaha khana khane se budhi khrab ho jati hai” I took stand for her and even fought for her respect. My father abused her, her father and mother on the call. Now coming back when I deny to marry the girl of their choice they beat me to hell until my knee was broken and I was shivering after that they through me out of their house. I was not having any place so the girl called me at her place and her parents are really very supportive. When my father found out that I am staying at her place he filled a fraud case against me and threat*ned me

again. He expelled me from his property but by god’s grace I got the job at the much needed time and now I am earning and surviving but the girl she never left my side so how can I leave her, even knowing that my parents and family is wrong, I have already suffered a lot within my family. If i choose my parents even knowing that they very wrong I wouldn’t be able to face myself in the future. well I don’t have any connection with them as of now. And I even don’t know what they are planning to do next

I know I do the right thing by taking stand for the right, but I paid a huge cost I lost my family, maybe God wants me to Remove from there so that I can start a new life. I have seen a lots of fight between my parents and even some dark things which I can’t tell, that makes me traumatized to marriage but God gave me a partner who brings back my faith.

My parents would never understand how painful it was, but I had suffered, what I have gone through, to make them proud I always gave up on my dreams, I studied hard to make them proud but to be honest they were never satisfied by me. Parents do a lot of sacrifices for their children but I have also done alot of sacrifices for them. I gave up on my many dreams. But for their sake, fake reputation in the society and of course dowry I can’t marry someone whom I don’t know or how could I when I am in love with someone already. I just want that more more people do understand that parents are always not right, maybe it could be their fault or may not but one needs to strong enough to take stand for good, what is right is right. At last as lord Krishna said it is easy to fight someone unknown to you but it is the most difficult thing to fight with your family